So you must know what you are doing before thinking of getting back with your ex. Here are the four things you must do before getting back together with your ex...

Is Your Ex the Right One

Ask yourself these questions:

• Was she/he the right person for you?

• How was the intimacy in your relationship?

• Was your relationship interdependent?

If the answer was yes to all the three questions above then your ex is the right one for you. If you had to make unnecessary sacrifices to put up with your ex's lack of commitment and consistency then they are not the right one for you.

Were You Both In Love

• Did your ex offer you compliments for all the things you did during the relationship?

• Did you compliment your ex frequently during the relationship?

• Did You Miss Your Ex When You Were Away (Did your ex feel the same away about you too)?

• Did both of you think about you often?

If the answer was yes, it means that the both of you were indeed in love with each other although it didn't work out.

Codependency and Interdependency

Most relationships we see around us are codependent. "Codependency or Codependence is a tendency to behave in ways that negatively impact one's relationships and quality of life.”

It's extremely easy to start a codependent relationship. It is awesome during the early stages but as you move forward you find it extremely difficult to adjust. Most codependent relationships result in a breakup.

On the other hand, Interdependent relationships are the ones that are the most successful. Interdependence is when mutual sharing of boundaries and resources take place between one person and another. In an interdependent relationship, both your behavioral patterns are Win-Win. Both of you speak your opinion and enjoy a passionate relationship for life.

The key to independent relationships is to adopt a Win-Win behavioral pattern. Only a win-win behavioral pattern will offer you any chances of getting back together with your ex.

All the successful relationships you see are due to the following three factors:

• Mindfulness

• Appreciation

• Interdependence

Click on the link below to discover my advanced tactics on How to have Interdependent relationships

Advanced Interdependence Tactics

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